Tuesday, August 28, 2012

baby boom of the 21st century

Nate & I had the privilege of being at Brownstown, IL convention this past weekend. It was so wonderful to get there again and catch up with many people that we haven't seen for awhile!

With four other couples who are expecting, and some families with new little ones, nearly 99% of the conversation between mtgs revolved around "babies." Usually this is a topic I tune in and out of. Now expecting babies of our own, Nate & I commented on our way home that we had no idea we'd ever enjoy talking about it so much. In the past, I've always looked at the group of pregnant ladies and families with babies as being SOO old ... and now it's us! But that's ok, I will take feeling old if it means being so excited for everyone as they start their little families. I just wish we didn't all live so far away from one another but it will be fun to get together from time to time and have play dates :)

It was really nice to see Eric Jen Ryker & Alivia there but we really missed mom & dad and Ryan Amy Lara & Calliegh. It was strange not to take a family picture Sun. morning with the whole clan! 

I was talking with Talisha Bloemker a little bit at Btown, and she put it perfectly when she asked me if it felt like there was an octopus inside of me. Yes, yes it does... the 8 limbs are constantly squirming!! I remember being so excited to feel the first obvious kick when sitting in the airport in Knoxville, TN. Now it feels like there is a party in my tummy every day! I've heard that these next few weeks might be when I feel the most movement. They won't have as much space to roam around towards the end, so I say that they are claiming their space right now. This got me to thinking about the types of movement that I have felt so far in my pregnancy and I've divided them into 5 separate categories.

The 5 types of movement:

1) the kick- like someone putting their pointer finger behind their thumb and then releasing to give you a swift flick (from the inside) ... sometimes it's so strong it makes me jump a little

2) the flutter- literally like someone tickling you on the inside, which often makes me giggle out loud

3) the tightening- usually my tummy has some bouyancy to it, but there are times when one of them sneaks to the belly button area (maybe curling up?) and makes it really, really hard to the touch, like a basketball. It's only for a minute and then he lets my tummy go right back to it's former semi-squishy state

4) the roll over- this feels similar to the twisting and turning of feeling sick to your stomach. However, it doesn't come with nausea or result in running to the bathroom, unless one of them finds my bladder in the meantime

5) bouncing baby boys- I'm pretty sure one of them turned his placenta into a trampoline and invited his brother over to play this morning. I awoke to the most movement I had ever felt. I just laid there and watched the left side of my tummy jump and jiggle


*Update on the growth of George & Harry:
24 weeks, measuring at last week's appt. at 1 lb 6 oz each


Brownstown, IL conv 2012

Nate & I (due Dec. 15th), Brad & Kalee (due Oct. 27th),
Craig & Kenna, Addison (almost 2 months), Marty & Beth, Zoey (5.5 months)



The ladies:
Amanda, Lauren, Me, Kalee, Kenna, and Beth
We are showing the progression of motherhood: pre-pregnancy, pregnancy, and post-pregnancy


Wednesday, August 8, 2012

2012 so far ...

Goodness. What a year this has already been!

This morning, I was thinking back to the beginning of this year and all that has happened between then and now. So far, 2012 has brought many drastic changes! If someone had told me on January 1st of all the things to expect this year, I probably would have went into hibernation.

By breaking down the last 7 months, here are just a few of the biggest things ... some changes, some accomplishments (not necessarily in order):

Nate quit his job at FedEx and started working with his dad in construction

I quit my job

We bought a house

We moved out of state

We got a great dane

We found out we're expecting ... twins

I trained for and ran in a 10k race ... while pregnant with twins

My parents sold their house and moved to TN

It's no wonder I find more gray hairs every time I look in the mirror. Even though I see these all as good things now, each one was a stressor at the time. I was able to give my input for many of these changes but not all of them were of my choosing. However, I understand that what I may want is not always best and I see many of these now as blessings in disguise. It's so hard to see the future and it's impossible to know how it will all pan out. I find it easy to get ahead of myself at times but am thankful for the reminder that it's a day at a time and I can't control every outcome.

What I do know is that I am happy today. It's not easy being so far away from all of my family and knowing that I won't get to see them as often as I'd like, and it wasn't easy to leave familiar places behind and be separated from friends that I really miss. But I choose to see what I have at the present time and look forward to some awesome things in the near future!

I feel like enough has already happened this year that we could just go ahead and wrap it up a few months early!! But I suppose I would miss out on conventions, Thanksgiving, and the birth of our twins, so I better hang in there.


Highlights of 2012 Photo Gallery


Mom & I made this cake for Nate in celebration of him switching jobs
In case it's too small to read, it says:
"FedUp
Shipping Out
N8 Stidolph
4 The Future
Moving On, IA 4-27-12"


Amanda, Leann, and me before the 10k race April 28


Moving day June 15 - leaving Baytowne


Kenna, Kalee, and me at Kenna's baby shower


baking a blackberry cobbler with Amy, Lara, & Calliegh


Kenna and me at mom & dad's house a few weeks before they moved


My contribution to the moving sale at mom & dad's ... my pig collection! Believe it or not, someone actually bought the slippers.


The fam at Seaworld in Orlando, FL


Orlando, FL - after Sun lunch at outback steakhouse


finally, a normal pic of the kids :)


Kayman loves his new doghouse (big enough to fit a growing great dane)


Fancy is enjoying being the only remaining occupant in the fish tank/hamster cage that once housed 3.


his ...


... hers


19 weeks bump


us at Darin & Kyla Goza's wedding (21 weeks)